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Is this a Spell, a Strong Desire, or an Affirmation?

Alright, my fellow newbie witches and magical mischief-makers, let’s talk spells, desires, and affirmations. These are the Big Three when it comes to dipping your toes into the mystical waters. And trust me, whether you're here to manifest a dream job or just to vibe under a full moon with a cup of tea, there’s something for everyone.

Julie Gish Norris

1/5/20252 min read

clear glass bottle with brown liquid
clear glass bottle with brown liquid

Alright, fellow newbie witches and magical mischief-makers, let’s talk spells, desires, and affirmations. These are the Big Three when it comes to dipping your toes into the mystical waters. And trust me, whether you're here to manifest a dream job or just to vibe under a full moon, there’s something for everyone.

So, What Even Is a Spell?

Picture this: a spell is like a fancy recipe for magic. At its core, it’s a ritual that’s all about focusing your energy to bring some sort of change. Maybe it’s physical, maybe it’s spiritual—whatever floats your broomstick. Think of it as sending a cosmic email with a subject line that reads, “Dear Universe, Let’s Make Things Happen.”

Spells can range from whispering a quick incantation (like, "Please let my Wi-Fi work") to full-blown productions with candles, herbs, and tools that make your kitchen look like Hogwarts' Potions class. The key? Intention. Whether it’s love, prosperity, protection, or just finding a parking spot, your energy and belief are the secret ingredients.

The Power of Really, Really Wanting Something

Next up: desires. You know that feeling when you spot the last donut and your soul screams, “MUST HAVE?” That’s desire. It’s that deep, burning want (we're talking Krispy Kreme donuts here) — but hopefully aimed at something a bit more profound (unless baked goods are your love language, in which case, carry on).

Unlike spells, desires don’t come with a step-by-step manual. They’re raw, and emotional, and are often the fuel that keeps you going. Want that dream house? Craving inner peace? Want to hit 'Reply All' to that spicy work email? Desires nudge (or shove) you into action. But heads up: just sitting there and wishing doesn’t cut it. Desires need you to roll up your sleeves and do something. Manifestation works best when paired with good ol’ effort.

Affirmations: Pep Talks for Your Soul

Here’s where things get really fun: affirmations. These are like sticky notes for your brain, reminding you that you’re capable of magic — literally and figuratively. They’re short, positive statements that flip the switch in your mindset. Feel like you’re floundering? Hit yourself with an, “I am thriving, not just surviving,” and let it marinate.

The cool thing about affirmations is that they don’t just sit in your conscious mind. Repeat them enough, and they’ll worm their way into your subconscious, rewriting those pesky negative thoughts into something uplifting.

Wrapping It All Up (Like a Witchy Burrito)

To sum it up:

  • Spells are your structured “magic-making recipes.”

  • Desires are the fiery passion that gets you out of bed (or off your couch).

  • Affirmations are the cheerleaders reminding you that you’ve got this.

Each of these has a place in your magical toolkit. Experiment with them, mix and match, and most importantly, have fun. Being a beginner witch is like being a magical scientist: you get to test what works for you and what makes your soul sing.

So, light that candle, whisper those affirmations, and let your desires lead the way. Who knows? Maybe the magic you’ve been looking for was inside you all along. (Cue sparkly Disney music, an eerie derg — or just a good cup of coffee or tea. Your call.)

If you’ve got tips, tricks, or just a good witchy joke, send me an email using the form below. I’ll be over here, trying not to set anything on fire (maybe).

Blessed be, or as I like to say, "Stay witchy, my friends!"

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